This advice is from Sunday school -优秀是训练出来的 (9)- on 3/3/19 at Michiana Chinese Christian Church (MCCC).
We started with a video from “Let the virtuous way” by Ezzo & Ezzo.
Bible verses:Colossians 3:20-21 20 Children, obey your parents in all things, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, don’t provoke your children, so that they won’t be discouraged.
Romans 13:1-7 12 “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you.
John 13:1-7 1 Let every soul be in subjection to the higher authorities, for there is no authority except from God, and those who exist are ordained by God. 2 Therefore he who resists the authority, withstands the ordinance of God; and those who withstand will receive to themselves judgment. 3 For rulers are not a terror to the good work, but to the evil. Do you desire to have no fear of the authority? Do that which is good, and you will have praise from the same, 4 for he is a servant of God to you for good. But if you do that which is evil, be afraid, for he doesn’t bear the sword in vain; for he is a servant of God, an avenger for wrath to him who does evil. 5 Therefore you need to be in subjection, not only because of the wrath, but also for conscience’ sake. 6 For this reason you also pay taxes, for they are servants of God’s service, attending continually on this very thing. 7 Therefore give everyone what you owe: if you owe taxes, pay taxes; if customs, then customs; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor.
Basic Knowledge on Training Kids to Obey
- Obeying or not obeying is not a personal choice/liking, it is a moral question.
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- 3 stages of kids growth
- Fastest physical and mental growth (14-50 month)
- Departing childhood, choosing between parents vision of values and self-understanding of values (10-12 years old)
- In the process of leaving family socially and emotionally, entering into adulthood, have to take responsibility for all own actions (19-21 years old) – Nothing can be trained or discipline at this point.
Difference Between Obedience and Submission
- Obey/ Obedience/ Obedient (3 stages)
- Power of authority
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Basic Principles of Training Kids to Obey
- Expect an inmediate and complete response/reply or action,